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I realize why when people pass away no one every wants to say anything bad about them. No matter how much of a son of a bitch the person was they only talk about the good aspects of the person, even if they hated them. You know that is the only way you can get over someone. Maybe not the only way, but it is a way. If you only focus on all the good memories, all the time you smiled, were happy you can move on.

“Happiness is the journey not the destination” . That means no matter where you end up, no matter how bad things get, you were once happy right? They once brought you joy right? So only focus on that, let that wave wash over you, let that sunshine come through and you can feel yourself not mourning anymore.

You don’t every know where life is going to take you, where you will end up but you do know where you came from, what happened or is happening now. If you think about all the moments you were happy, focus on all the experiences you are enjoying now you will always have something to be happy about.

Your future success does not matter for now, what matters is how successful and complete you feel in your life. Make the best of your moments now, don’t shut yourself in trying to work on something for later and pursue your life. Enjoy what you have, what you have in your hands as we speak.

Sometimes it’s not your life you have to change completely just the way you have been looking at it. Find the little happiness you are given and treasure it. What you want you may not have now nor ever get but what you have now is yours, don’t waste it.